Feb
19
2009
by admin on February 19, 2009
Due to the harsh realities of the world and the undeniable necessity to have a mentally stable “human” in order to pass genes on from generation to generation, the evolution of a mind that can ward off negative emotion is one of the end results… There are five major factors that are working constantly to assure that our concept of self and our sense of reality stays in check and there is a sixth mechanism that helps to facilitate their usage during communication. Let’s discuss these first and then we can get into the practical mechanisms we can use to [...]
Feb
17
2009
by admin on February 17, 2009
Communicating to future prospects, whether they be clients, potential lovers or maybe just someone at the DMV who you want to help you get out of there quicker can pose us with an almost infinite number of possible strategies. Sometimes the most successful route to take is also the simplest. Stick with me here and I am sure you’ll be happy you did… In 1954, a social psychologist by the name of James Olds worked in conjunction with a physicist named Peter Milner to discover what is now known in the field as “self-stimulation”. During their research, they found that [...]
Sep
4
2008
by admin on September 4, 2008
Effective communication is a lot more than simply choosing the right words. Being persuasive, forming the right communication strategies and speaking effectively are just a few of the components necessary for people to communicate effectively. One important component that is often overlooked is mental energy reserves. Now, I understand very well that the concept of mental energy has at least until recently been considered a metaphor. When your “mental energy” was down, traditionally you just “give a little bit more effort”, “man up” or just focus and you’d be fine. How you “felt” inside was just your perception… It wasn’t [...]
Aug
17
2008
by admin on August 17, 2008
What is speech? What’s the big deal about being able to talk? Very rarely do we stop to think about how amazing the ability to speak to someone really is. Could you imagine a world where there were no language, no writing and no other form of communication outside of grunts and yelling and cooing at each other? Life as we know it would not exist… Our world would literally be exactly like that of our primate neighbors. There are some significant differences between “us” and “them” and we as a species have developed into the amazing creatures we are [...]
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